It is difficult for us to talk about it, especially if it is to reveal our salary or admit that we are having trouble controlling our budget. But to complain about the economy, unemployment or the fact that our superior does not grant us a raise, we are good! In this article, we will help you change your relationship with money with 4 essential keys.
Change your view on wealth
This is a good sign that these people want to earn money and be rich. Does that mean, however, that they wish to despise themselves? Of course not. This contradiction between the desire to be rich and contempt for wealth does not necessarily come from conscious hypocrisy, but rather from a societal , religious reflex or ‘a lack of self-awareness. If you belong to the category of people who despise or discredit rich people, but who wouldn’t be unhappy about winning the lotto, it’s time to change your mind about money and more specifically about wealth. Having money isn’t bad, nor is it a sign of dishonesty. It’s just a way to allow yourself to live well and bring your projects and dreams to life .
Take care of your relationship with money
Just as we take care of our body and our mind with a healthy lifestyle made up of a balanced diet and regular sports practice, the relationship with money can “be healed”. If you are having trouble managing your budget – difficult end of the month, inability to carry out your projects, feeling that you always have more to pay, etc. – is that your relationship to money is not healthy. It is then important to take care of it. If you reject wealth and everything about your attitude, thoughts, emotions, beliefs, affirmations, habits gives a general impression that money is not welcome in your life, then the consequence is logical: it will not come. It is for this reason that you must take care of this relationship: reconnect with money simply by refocusing on your real desires, projects, heart desires. Leave room for money, because you know very well that few projects are possible without money.
Free your mind from beliefs
In many religions there are “restrictions” on money. It is not necessarily the religious texts which are at the base of these limits, but rather the interpretation of our fellow men and often those who transmit the faith. In any case, know that no religion, in its sacred texts, equates money with evil or sin . Apart from going to live in complete autarky, it is better to free your mind from the beliefs that you have been instilled. Think and analyze for yourself in order to give yourself the chance to act in life in harmony with your own belief and not the one that you have inherited from your parents, your entourage or the society in which you live. You are quite capable of having your own opinion about money. Be aware that beliefs hold you back and block you because having an emotional connection with money creates pressure which in turn is stressful. Therefore, by freeing yourself from your beliefs, you will be able to demotivate your relationship with money and thus cleanse your negative feelings.
Balance your budget
Money often causes a lot of stress . One of the sources of this stress is, as you should know, its lack or insufficient. These are often caused by an imbalance in the budget. When expenses exceed income, it may be a sign that we are living beyond our means or that we are having trouble managing the money we earn. It is often the second most common cause. If you balance your budget, you will have less money stress . You will end your months in the green, quietly. For this, you probably already know, it is necessary to control the expenses and eliminate those which are superfluous . Obviously, balancing your budget doesn’t mean becoming stingy or living in an uncomfortable way. No. You can live comfortable by spending smarter.